Make Every Man Want You: How to Be So Irresistible You'll Barely Keep From Dating Yourself! Read Online Free
Author: Marie Forleo
Tags: General, Family & Relationships, Psychology, Interpersonal relations, Self-Help, Personal Growth, Love & Romance, Self-Esteem
energies within you, and allow the fullness of your glory as an irresistible woman to show through in everything you do. Your feminine side is more compelling than you could ever imagine. Your softness and vulnerability are magnificent. You are an irresistible woman. Be proud. Whether it's in the boardroom or the bedroom, on the battlefield or in the grocery store, our world needs irresistible women now more than ever. Our children need them. Our businesses need them. Our schools need them. Our governments need them. The world needs you to claim your brilliance and share it. Let your life be an example of how glorious it is to be an irresistible woman.
Irresistibility 101 lays groundwork for having a brilliant life and magical relationships and, of course, for being authentically irresistible. The purpose of this chapter is toopen your mind to new possibilities and greater personal awareness. Awareness is the key that allows you to stop automatically doing things that drive men away and begin naturally doing things that support happy and satisfying relationships. Master this stuff and you'll notice that men, women, children, small animals, large animals, dust bunnies, and anything else that's not glued down will find it virtually impossible to resist you.
Your Irresistibility Lies in the Present Moment
Take a deep breath and let your shoulders melt down. Relax your jaw and ease into the moment. Allow yourself simply to be here. Forget about your to-do lists. Let go of wandering thoughts of what you might have for dinner or regrets about what you didn't get done today at work.
Your ability to be completely irresistible and make every man want you lies in the present moment. When you are fully present (meaning your full attention is in "the now"), you access the infinite source of beauty and aliveness inherent in every living creature. You become one with the cosmic intelligence and timeless magnificence of all that is.
On a physiological level, being present means that you stop going on mental vacations and actively engage your mind, body, and soul in whatever you are doing in this moment. You let go of thoughts about the past and worriesabout the future and bring your full attention to whatever, or whoever, is in front of you right now. In the context of reading this book, being present means giving your full, undivided attention to "hearing" the words on the page as you read them.
Refrain from the temptation to compare this to other self-help books you've read or to wonder whether or not this will work for you. All that mental chatter pulls you out of the moment and away from your irresistibility. Listening to that conversation you have with yourself is what has gotten you lost and confused in the first place.
Here's a nugget of wisdom that can transform your life in an instant. Ready?
You are not your mind
.
You have a mind, but you are not your mind. You are also not the conversation you have with yourself in your mind. You may be thinking, "What conversation? What is she talking about?"
That
one!
Of course, you may be thinking, "Well then, who
am
I?" Who you are is a glorious being behind your mind. You are the awareness, the observer, the listener. You are the wise, elegant, generous, and loving consciousness that knows exactly what I'm talking about right now.
Know this, too: your irresistibility is greatest when you're present and disengaged from your mental chatter. That's because the fullness and glory of your being is showing through. Your being is your highest self and grandest expression of who you are. It is timeless and beautiful, full of love, compassion, forgiveness, and sensuality. It needsnothing and seeks no approval. It is who you really are beneath all of the worry, concern, and fear.
Your mind, on the other hand, is a past/future fear-based machine that is primarily concerned with survival. It's always comparing, analyzing, scheming, and talking to you about what you need to do in order to
Irresistibility 101 lays groundwork for having a brilliant life and magical relationships and, of course, for being authentically irresistible. The purpose of this chapter is toopen your mind to new possibilities and greater personal awareness. Awareness is the key that allows you to stop automatically doing things that drive men away and begin naturally doing things that support happy and satisfying relationships. Master this stuff and you'll notice that men, women, children, small animals, large animals, dust bunnies, and anything else that's not glued down will find it virtually impossible to resist you.
Your Irresistibility Lies in the Present Moment
Take a deep breath and let your shoulders melt down. Relax your jaw and ease into the moment. Allow yourself simply to be here. Forget about your to-do lists. Let go of wandering thoughts of what you might have for dinner or regrets about what you didn't get done today at work.
Your ability to be completely irresistible and make every man want you lies in the present moment. When you are fully present (meaning your full attention is in "the now"), you access the infinite source of beauty and aliveness inherent in every living creature. You become one with the cosmic intelligence and timeless magnificence of all that is.
On a physiological level, being present means that you stop going on mental vacations and actively engage your mind, body, and soul in whatever you are doing in this moment. You let go of thoughts about the past and worriesabout the future and bring your full attention to whatever, or whoever, is in front of you right now. In the context of reading this book, being present means giving your full, undivided attention to "hearing" the words on the page as you read them.
Refrain from the temptation to compare this to other self-help books you've read or to wonder whether or not this will work for you. All that mental chatter pulls you out of the moment and away from your irresistibility. Listening to that conversation you have with yourself is what has gotten you lost and confused in the first place.
Here's a nugget of wisdom that can transform your life in an instant. Ready?
You are not your mind
.
You have a mind, but you are not your mind. You are also not the conversation you have with yourself in your mind. You may be thinking, "What conversation? What is she talking about?"
That
one!
Of course, you may be thinking, "Well then, who
am
I?" Who you are is a glorious being behind your mind. You are the awareness, the observer, the listener. You are the wise, elegant, generous, and loving consciousness that knows exactly what I'm talking about right now.
Know this, too: your irresistibility is greatest when you're present and disengaged from your mental chatter. That's because the fullness and glory of your being is showing through. Your being is your highest self and grandest expression of who you are. It is timeless and beautiful, full of love, compassion, forgiveness, and sensuality. It needsnothing and seeks no approval. It is who you really are beneath all of the worry, concern, and fear.
Your mind, on the other hand, is a past/future fear-based machine that is primarily concerned with survival. It's always comparing, analyzing, scheming, and talking to you about what you need to do in order to
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