ainât so?â Rebecca Fisher, Judithâs widowed cousin, set a warm pan of apple crisp on the table between Judith and their grandmother in her tidy kitchen.
âAlways a happy time for the kinder. And for their mammis, too, I sometimes think.â Grossmammi smiled and began to dish up the apple crisp while Rebecca poured coffee.
âPaul especially,â Judith said, thinking of her middle sonâs excitement. âHeâs been marking off the days on the calendar, trying to make school come faster.â She had brought Paul and Noah with her on this afternoon visit to her cousin, but Levi had wanted to stay home and help with some new fencing. Her kinder were outside now, engrossed in some game with Rebeccaâs two.
Judith had been delighted to find Grossmammi here when she arrived. Since Elizabeth Lapp had moved in with her son, Rebeccaâs daad, on the farm next door to Rebeccaâs place, they were seeing much more of her. And their grandmother seemed happier, too. Much as sheâd hated to leave the house where she had spent all of her married life, it had become too much for her to care for, and Rebeccaâs parents had been wonderful glad to have her with them.
âFall is a time of new beginnings, just like spring is.â Grossmammi put cream into her coffee and then poured a bit over her apple crisp. âEspecially for Rebecca and Matthew.â She sent a twinkling glance toward Rebecca.
âFor sure?â Happiness bubbled up in Judith. âHave you and Matt set a date?â
Rebecca nodded, her normally serene oval face glowing with happiness. âDonât tell anyone,â she cautioned. âBut weâre planning on the last Thursday in October for the wedding.â
âAch, thatâs wonderful gut news.â Judith rounded the table to hug her cousin. Along with their cousin Barbie, they were the only women in their generation of the Lapp family, and that made them as close as sisters in some ways. âSee how wrong you were to think youâd never love again?â
âI knew youâd tease me about that,â Rebecca said, returning the hug with a strong clasp. âAt least youâre not as bad as Barbie. If sheâs not teasing me, sheâs kidding Matt, threatening to spill the beans to everyone.â
âEveryone will know anyway,â Judith said. Sometimes she thought people in their close-knit Amish community knew too much about each other, but that was a part of being Amish. âEven though weâll all pretend not to have noticed anything about the two of you right up to the Sunday the wedding is published in church.â
The announcement of forthcoming weddings in worship was a high point in the Amish year, coming as it did after the fall communion. All the couples who were being married would be absent from church on publishing Sunday, staying home to have a quiet meal together. It was another of the many traditions that bound them as a community, like a coverlet tightly woven of many strands to make it warm and strong.
âAt least by then the farm-stay visitors will be slowing down,â Rebecca said. âOnce the weather turns, not many people will want to come. Weâll have plenty of time for our wedding visits.â
Rebecca had reopened the house to Englisch visitors this summer, with help from Barbie and the rest of the family. It hadnât been easy to do it without her husband, but Rebecca had surprised a lot of people by her strength. And now she would have a new husband to help her, too, come October.
It was the custom for the newly married couple to spend the weekends after the wedding visiting family and friends together. The fact that Rebecca had been married before and had two kinder wouldnât alter that tradition. Matt must be introduced to her family and friends as her spouse.
âIf you need me to watch the children for you, or help with the wedding arrangements, or