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for speed and strength. They are designed to be aggressive, to hunt and pursue, to protect and provide. The hormone testosterone that courses so strongly through a man’s blood vessels provides him with a chemistry that differs greatly from a woman’s (though we women, too, have very small amounts of testosterone in our systems). Men are yang.
Women’s bodies are softer, contoured to comfort and nurture. We are yin. The hormone estrogen dominates our blood chemistry (although men have a very small amount of estrogen in their bodies). In her 2006 book, The Female Brain, neuropsychiatrist Louann Brizendine, M.D., takes these dif ferences beyond the bloodstream. In an interview she said, “I know it’s not politically correct to say this. . . . But I believe that women actually perceive the world differently than men. If women attend to those differences, they can make better decisions about how to manage their lives.”1 The American Geisha knows intuitively that the brains of men and women sense the world—including relationships—differently. Isn’t this psychological difference obvious to you, dear Younger Sister?
The Asian Geisha recognizes the power of her receptivity and her nur turing tranquility. She develops these qualities into mysteriousness and elu siveness, which inspire in her male clients a sense of chase. In doing this, she taps into the fundamental vein of masculinity: a testosterone-charged ag gression. She makes men hunt her. The Asian Geisha is very aware of her yin versus the male yang.
So, too, should you, dear Younger Sister, embrace your yin. By making yourself explicitly aware of your natural femininity, you will appeal to men’s natural masculinity, and you will facilitate and encourage the bringing to gether of these two powerful physical and psychological energies into a wonderful relationship with your Good Man.
     
A Quick but Important Caution
You can only present yourself in this totally feminine way when you are dealing with what I call a “Good Man.” In Chapter 7, I define the basic characteristics that make a man a “Good Man” as opposed to an inappro priate (though not necessarily “bad”) man for you either to date or to marry. In your Geisha Consciousness you are too soft, open, trusting, and vulnerable to be in relationship with anyone who is not a Good Man, be cause a nongood man could take advantage of you, hurt you, and waste your precious time. When you are dealing with a Good Man, however, your femininity operates in safety as it supports his protective masculine expres sion.
Until you determine that a man is, in fact, a Good Man, keep your feminist guard on alert; only interact with him more fully from your femi nine-ist self after he has proven himself to you to be a Good Man. (If you are particularly curious about the definition of a Good Man, perhaps be cause you feel you’ve too often gotten involved with men who are not right for you, you may want to skip ahead and read Chapter 7, “Define Your ‘Good Man,’ ” before learning more in this chapter about developing your Geisha Consciousness.)
Finding a Good Man will be so good for you, as it has been for me. You will get to express your deepest feminine qualities to your Good Man, who, responding to your powerful femaleness, will bring his inspired masculinity to your love relationship and marriage.
     
Embrace Your Geisha Consciousness
As your Older Sister I will lead you into many areas of your femininity. In Chapter 3, I suggest many ways to increase the expression of your beauty and femininity. I want you to embrace the Asian Geisha attitude, to inter nalize the geisha mindset, to focus with total enthusiasm and sincerity on bringing to your love life a Geisha Consciousness.
All of my suggestions or secrets will support you in being the essence of femaleness to him so you can support him in being the essence of male ness to you. Whew! I’m getting hot just thinking about the chemistry of such feminine