Romance: The Betrayal: Romantic Suspense With A Bizarre Twist Read Online Free
Author: Melody Hall
reality of it all, is that it IS easy. You're just too picky about your potential prospects.
Just think about all the single people that you cross paths with everyday. Granted, some of them aren't suited to your wants and needs, but some of them probably are. If you look beyond physical appearances, their career choices, educational background and age, you'll substantially widen your dating spectrum and increase the size of your dating pool.
With more people to choose from in your dating pool, you have a better chance of finding your life partner. For the next two weeks, make it your full-time job to find a mate. Yes, it's that easy. You will be amazed at the people you'll meet.
Think of it as a dating exercise. By getting more dating practice, you are inviting more opportunities into your life. This means a greater chance of finding your partner. Don't think it's possible? Then read this: After my friend and her husband got divorced, she couldn't bring herself to get back out into the dating scene. With much encouragement from her family and friends, she decided to give it a whirl.
She wasn't looking for a "good time," but she was looking to settle down again with a nice guy. She visited a dating coach who asked her to make 2 connections a day with total strangers. Now mind you, the connections only had to consist of a smile or a simple "hello." At first my friend was resistant to the dating coach's suggestion, but she tried it anyway. While at work, she smiled at a guy in the elevator, and when she stopped at the grocery store after work, she said hello to someone in the produce department.
As it turned out, the guy in the elevator had just recently broken up with his girlfriend, and the guy from the grocery store was looking for a date to bring to his class reunion. This is a true story, and it happens every day. As you become more open with people, you will generally attract them to you. By attracting them to you, you raise your chances of getting a date with them, and then.... You're on your way to finding that life partner!
If you sit in your house all day and not make those connections, you won't find anybody. My aunt used to say, "Honey, the man of your dreams isn't going to come to your house and ring your doorbell, you have to go out and look for him!" Even if you don't make a love connection with the people you meet during the next two weeks, you might make some good friends during your dating exercises, who may know someone to set you up with.
People who are extremely picky may simply be afraid of getting close to someone because they are wary of getting hurt. If you are extremely picky, ask yourself if you are afraid of other people seeing you for who you really are.
Those who are very picky may use their "pickiness" as a defense mechanism so their dates will not see through to their weaknesses. This is a method of protecting yourself, albeit an unconscious method.
After you have acknowledged that you might have a pickiness issue, there are steps you can take so that you do not sabotage a promising relationship. Remember, it is good to be somewhat picky in the people you date, so don't feel that it is necessarily a bad thing.
Since your picky dating nature may stem from your fear of a long-term relationship, think of the reasons you are apprehensive of getting into a long-term relationship, and why you may be more fearful of a relationship than most people. Could it be that your pickiness is related to conflict or fighting in your family when you were growing up? Perhaps you were made fun of, or bullied in school, causing you to become insecure, or maybe a previous relationship caused you a broken heart in the past.
After you have acknowledged the reasons for your pickiness, let your friends and family know about them, and ask them to mention it when you start finding fault with one of your prospective dates. Friends and loved ones want to support you, and it is very important to exhibit your
Just think about all the single people that you cross paths with everyday. Granted, some of them aren't suited to your wants and needs, but some of them probably are. If you look beyond physical appearances, their career choices, educational background and age, you'll substantially widen your dating spectrum and increase the size of your dating pool.
With more people to choose from in your dating pool, you have a better chance of finding your life partner. For the next two weeks, make it your full-time job to find a mate. Yes, it's that easy. You will be amazed at the people you'll meet.
Think of it as a dating exercise. By getting more dating practice, you are inviting more opportunities into your life. This means a greater chance of finding your partner. Don't think it's possible? Then read this: After my friend and her husband got divorced, she couldn't bring herself to get back out into the dating scene. With much encouragement from her family and friends, she decided to give it a whirl.
She wasn't looking for a "good time," but she was looking to settle down again with a nice guy. She visited a dating coach who asked her to make 2 connections a day with total strangers. Now mind you, the connections only had to consist of a smile or a simple "hello." At first my friend was resistant to the dating coach's suggestion, but she tried it anyway. While at work, she smiled at a guy in the elevator, and when she stopped at the grocery store after work, she said hello to someone in the produce department.
As it turned out, the guy in the elevator had just recently broken up with his girlfriend, and the guy from the grocery store was looking for a date to bring to his class reunion. This is a true story, and it happens every day. As you become more open with people, you will generally attract them to you. By attracting them to you, you raise your chances of getting a date with them, and then.... You're on your way to finding that life partner!
If you sit in your house all day and not make those connections, you won't find anybody. My aunt used to say, "Honey, the man of your dreams isn't going to come to your house and ring your doorbell, you have to go out and look for him!" Even if you don't make a love connection with the people you meet during the next two weeks, you might make some good friends during your dating exercises, who may know someone to set you up with.
People who are extremely picky may simply be afraid of getting close to someone because they are wary of getting hurt. If you are extremely picky, ask yourself if you are afraid of other people seeing you for who you really are.
Those who are very picky may use their "pickiness" as a defense mechanism so their dates will not see through to their weaknesses. This is a method of protecting yourself, albeit an unconscious method.
After you have acknowledged that you might have a pickiness issue, there are steps you can take so that you do not sabotage a promising relationship. Remember, it is good to be somewhat picky in the people you date, so don't feel that it is necessarily a bad thing.
Since your picky dating nature may stem from your fear of a long-term relationship, think of the reasons you are apprehensive of getting into a long-term relationship, and why you may be more fearful of a relationship than most people. Could it be that your pickiness is related to conflict or fighting in your family when you were growing up? Perhaps you were made fun of, or bullied in school, causing you to become insecure, or maybe a previous relationship caused you a broken heart in the past.
After you have acknowledged the reasons for your pickiness, let your friends and family know about them, and ask them to mention it when you start finding fault with one of your prospective dates. Friends and loved ones want to support you, and it is very important to exhibit your
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