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She still loved getting outside and poking around in her flower garden. Iâm not sure why, but I knew that nasturtiums (and maybe daisies) were her favourite. She was still living in her own two-storey red-brick house, the same one sheâd raised her children in. She still enjoyed going for strolls around the block. I could go on and on. She had even carried the Olympic torch when it came through town. She ran with it in one hand held up over her head, waving to the crowd with the other. Itâs more like LeBron James is the NBA âs version of Grandma.
Jimmy and I always enjoy talking about these accomplishments, her joie de vivre, and the good genes weâve hopefully inherited. But this year weâd noticed a few changes. Grandma was becoming a little more forgetful. She would sometimes repeat a story. She was confusing dates and mixing up times. She would forget the odd meeting. She seemed a little more tired, taking naps most afternoons. She was, in her words, âgetting dottled.â
She also refused to do little things like ignore the phone or hang up on assholes, and sometimes would get caught talking to telemarketers for forty minutes at a time. Sheâd been scammed on the phone and at her door by dodgy salesmen and frauds. She had a hard time declining invitations to play cards, especially bridge (even though she didnât love it), or invites to lunch. She was attempting to carry on as she always had. But the world was changing at an unfair pace. Timeâs performance eventually becomes ineluctable.
Physically, she was still an anomaly, but she also seemed maybe an inch shorter and a little more hunched, like there were invisible weights cinched to each wrist. She couldnât be much over five feet now. Her walking pace had slowed. Against her best efforts, she might even have developed a slight limp from a sore knee. She had more sun spots on her arms, hands, and face. We agreed these changes werenât huge, but they were present. Weâd noticed. At some point, Grandma had gone from old to older.
âI gotta think of something better this year, nothing practical or cheesy, just something that sheâd really like,â I said again, wiping some sweat from just above my nose with my index finger. Whenever I wore this sweater, my body found new places to release perspiration. âBut what do you get a ninety-two-year-old? Itâs a question as tricky as the nature of infinity.â
âI got her a painting,â said Jimmy. âSheâs always loved art.â
Oh, fuck you, Jimmy. âI asked that question rhetorically.â
âWell, think about it. What do you have that you could offer?â
While I thought about this, Jimmy ordered two more beers with a nod of his head.
I finally answered when our refills arrived. âIâm curious, is the point of this to try and think of a gift I can give Grandma, or just to make me feel like shit?â
âIdeally both,â said Jimmy.
âItâs working.â
âReally, though,â he said, âthe answerâs easy. Itâs time. Just time.â
âTime?â I repeated neutrally, having not yet decided if I was insulted or intrigued. Iâd spent the last ten years working a variety of odd jobs, from journalism to putting up drywall. One of those years, I was forced to move home to live with my parents on their farm. For the last while Iâd mostly just been writing. So I worked mainly from my apartment. I didnât have an office to go to, or any co-workers, or work trips to go on, like Jimmy.
âI know youâre working on your writing, but you can also take time off. Time that you could then spend with Grandma. No one else in the family can do that as easily. So maybe I can afford to buy her a painting, but you could spend time with her.â And then, âActually, you