but also all of the other times his wife told me about when I interviewed her.â
âHow strong is Mr. McMillanâs pattern?â
âI would say it is a strong pattern.â
âBut in coming to that conclusion â that thereâs a strong pattern of behavior â do you rely on all of theâ¦letâs say, other instances Mrs. McMillan says happened but were never tried or proven in a court of law?â
âYes.â
âAnd, Dr. Hamilton, hypothetically speaking now, if you ignored everything Mrs. McMillan says except for the three proven assaults â would you still say Mr. McMillanâs actions establish a pattern of behavior?â
âYes, I would.â
âBut wouldnât you agree with me the pattern of behavior is much, much weaker than if you include all the other alleged assaults?â
The witness paused. âYes, Iâd have to agree with that. But itâs still a pattern of behavior.â
The lawyer shifted forward and read from a paper. âMr. McMillan told you he owns a successful commercial insurance agency? He makes a good living and provides all the comforts that make life pleasant?â
âFinancially, the family had a good standard of living, yes.â
âEvery summer, he took them camping and fishing? Theyâve been to Disneyland and Hawaii?â
âYes.â
âDo you agree he offered his children lots of activities and filled their lives with opportunities? That he always did his best for his children?â
âOn the surface, yes.â
âAnd Mr. McMillan is under a restraining order â heâs not allowed any contact with his wife or his children for the indefinite future?â
âYes.â
âAnd the hidden gun? The gun with the tag? It was removed the day after the December assault? Heâs not allowed to have a gun anymore?â
âYes.â
âAnd theyâre getting a divorce?â
âYes.â
âAnd when you interviewed him, he said he loved his wife? And he was very sorry for what he did?â
âYes, he said those things.â
âThank you, Dr. Hamilton. Those are all my questions.â Mr. Miller returned to his seat.
âAny redirect, Ms. Johnson?â asked Judge Cunningham.
âYes, Your Honor,â Sandra replied as she stood. âDr. Hamilton, what do you think of Mr. McMillanâs parenting skills?â
âMr. McMillan thinks of himself as a model father, but he doesnât understand what he does to his wife also affects his children. Heâs not a good parent.â The psychiatrist looked at Danny. âIn fact, I would say he is no better than a child abuser.â
Dannyâs face flushed, and he wished he could sink into the ground and hide from view. The prosecutor continued her questioning.
âIs it unusual for an abuser to show remorse after an assault?â
âNot at all. In fact, itâs part of the standard cycle of domestic violence. Violent men express a lot of sadness and remorse afterwards. Itâs one of the ways they lure their victims into staying, or coming back into the relationship if theyâve already left. Then, the cycle starts again.â
âNow, you said you know thereâs a restraining order, a gun prohibition, and a divorce. In your experience, do any of these things make any difference to an abuserâs behavior after release?â
âIf anything, they can make the behavior worse. The most dangerous time for a woman is immediately after a separation. It doesnât matter what any paperwork says. In fact, going to court can anger the abuser even more. If Mr. McMillan were released today, this would be the most dangerous time for his wife â the time he is most likely to seek her out and hurt her again. Heâs like aâ¦like a spider. He spins a web and lures his victim into it. The spiderâs silk is thin, almost invisible, but incredibly strong.