Harvey and when he was handed his diploma on a warm June day in 1951, he just left and nobody ever heard from him again.
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The camaraderie of the class of â51 stuck, especially with the alumni of the Kappa Beta fraternity and Alpha Epsilon Phi sorority. Many kept in touch, sporadically updating addresses and gossip about other grads. Instead of ending up as the intelligentsia of tomorrow, they went on to teach in grade schools and junior colleges around the country.
Paul Buchman spent a lot of Tuesday and Thursday nights working with Harvey on the State College News sports section. Heâs fond of telling the story of how Life magazine surveyed the college graduating classes of his era, rating their subsequent contributions to American life on a scale of zero to four. The class of â51 was the only zero, Buchman says. âWe werenât the lost generation, we were the blank generation. The class of â51 didnât have any unusual characteristics. We didnât have anything that stood out. We fell into a rut that had no character at all. Harvey and I were just like thatâwe were ordinary.â
Doris Brody from Hillel ended up marrying Harveyâs barracks-mate Howard Rosman and they settled back in Valley Stream, two LIRR stops south of Woodmere. âHe was never thought of as a possible queerâthatâs what you called them thenâhe was a manâs man,â recalls Mrs. Doris Rosman. âIn our day, of course, people were thought to be gay if they were effeminateâor if they announced it. Of course, nobody announced it in those days.â
Another alumnus who kept in contact moved to the San Francisco Bay Area and supplied classmates with newspaper clippings about Harveyâs budding political career. Christian Lievestro didnât have a hard time imagining what Harveyâs life had been like at Albany State. âHarvey was discreetâand sensible,â says Lievestro, class of â50. âWe didnât know about each other being gay. Of course nobody did in those days. You certainly never talked about it or let on because you were there to be a teacher, and it could destroy your chances at that.â Gay life was a melange of âchance encountersâ and âincidental things,â he says. The braver gays joined the glee club where drunken parties might lead to that one desparate moment of gratification, followed by the days of regret, and, more saliently, fear that the secret would get out.
But Lievestro found that by the late 1970s, most of his Albany State contemporaries seemed downright proud of Harvey Milk. He was one of the few remarkable people from the class of â51. Some of Harveyâs fraternity brothers even seem somewhat hurt that Milk never reached back. Sure they didnât end up Nobel laureates as they had once hoped, but they were from the liberal middle-class Jewish mold. They didnât call gays queers anymore. They wanted to pat Harvey on the back. Heâd always been a winner.
Harvey had something special even back then; politicians later called it charisma. âLike Iâm talking to you now. His face and his laugh come perfectly to mind, even though I havenât seen him in thirty years,â says Doris Rosman. âIn fact, I havenât seen anyone who has seen him since we graduated.â
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Harvey makes such a handsome sailor. Who to match him up with?
The question buzzed through the wedding reception as Harvey grabbed girl after girl to dance them through the celebration of Robert Milkâs marriage. Robert and Audrey were a handsome couple, but Bob suffered in comparison to his tall, athletic younger brother, who looked positively dashing in his navy dress whites. The women marveled at his grace and humor. Everybody talked excitedly of how he actually put on those windowed helmets and thick wet suits like you see in the movies, to be