a heart full of goodwill toward all Fairchilds. Donât worry.â
âIâm not worried,â her mother said serenely. âI just know how it is.â
âBut you adored Gran and Granfaâand what about Chat!â Faithâs aunt Chat was her fatherâs youngest sister and the only one who had ever been around much.His two older sisters were Faith and Hope. It was a long-standing Sibley custom to name the girls in each generation Faith, Hope, and Charity. Faith had a sneaking suspicion that Jane had stopped having children when she did to avoid the possibility of the appellation. Aunt Faith had died of breast cancer before Faith was born, and Aunt Hope lived near Seattle, a childless widow. Chat, who had never married, had been and was a major presence in her niecesâ lives. She now lived just outside the city, in New Jersey, after retiring from the very successful ad agency sheâd started. Most of her friends assumed the flight into Jersey was a temporary aberration, but it had been several years now, and they were forced to cross the Hudson when they wanted to visit herâan undertaking more daunting to a New Yorker than crossing the Atlantic. Gran and Granfa (Hope had invented the latter name at age two) had lived long enough for both Sibley granddaughters to know and love them. These three very important relatives and a bunch of second cousins once and more removed made up the Sibley side.
Since Jane was an only child, Faith hadnât grown up in the kind of clan Tom had. The Fairchilds numbered Dick, Marian, and their four: Tom, his older sister, Betsey, along with her husband, Dennis, and their sons, Scott and Andy, and Tomâs younger brothers, Robert and Craig, plus Craigâs new wife, Glenda. Marian and Dick came from large families, and the aunts, uncles, and cousins were as numerous as Winnie-the-Poohâs friend Rabbitâs relations. Tom had been surprised at Faithâs paucity of kin. Although he denied it vigorously, Faith knew he associated it with the city. Whentheyâd first met and engaged in those heady conversations typical of couples falling madly in loveâthe desire to know everything about oneâs beloved: favorite color, favorite songâTom kept coming up with queries about her childhood. âBut where did you play?â he would ask. Heâd regaled her with tales of lazy summer days spent building rafts on the North River and winters filled with sledding, skating, and ice fishing. Sheâd countered with Central Park and the rink at Rockefeller Center, followed by hot chocolate at Rumpelmayerâs, but he had remained skeptical.
âOf course Iâm very close to Chat,â Jane Sibley said. âIâve been lucky to have three wonderful sisters-in-lawâand Gran and Granfa were very special to me. But I wasnât used to en famille gatherings so en masse. Forty assorted Sibleys at my first family Thanksgiving almost caused me to cancel our wedding plans and elope. There wereâ¦well, so many of them and they were so bumptiousâyou know what I mean.â
Faith did. Jane was not a hugger. Faith had married into a family of huggers and had been converted, but she understood her motherâs early dismay. For all her high-powered wheeling and dealing in the business world, the confidence that exuded from every pore as she strode into a boardroom, Jane Sibley was actually quite shy.
Faith tried to explain her reluctance about the birthday bash. Sheâd successfully avoided the topic with Hope. âItâs a little of thatâthe âso many of themâ partâbut itâs more the kinds of interactions that take place when theyâre all together. Itâs as if they are all still living at home and relating to one another the waythey did when they were children. Somewhere along the line, roles were assigned, learnedâand no changes in the script, please. Not Tom, of course.â